Episodes

Friday Dec 29, 2023
Friday Dec 29, 2023
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As a caregiver, you dream of your loved one leading an independent life, meaning more freedom for your loved one... and for you! In this video, I share insights from families who are making significant progress towards independence with their loved one month after month.
Discover three key strategies for more progress:
1) Persistence with Intention
2) Patience for Your Loved One's Pace
3) Embrace Positivity
Listen to this podcast to learn how to implement these strategies to make 2024 the best year yet for your family.
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About Eric Goll:
Welcome to Empowering Ability! I'm Eric Goll, and my mission is to help you make sure your loved one with an intellectual/developmental disability lives an Awesome Ordinary Life! As a family member and coach, I support families touched by autism/ developmental disabilities. I provide the knowledge and tools to cultivate an awesome ordinary life for your loved ones, ensuring their care and support now and in the future.
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Thursday Dec 21, 2023
#096: How To Teach Social Skills To People with Autism or a Developmental Disability
Thursday Dec 21, 2023
Thursday Dec 21, 2023
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Do you want your loved one with Autism or a developmental disability to have better social skills so that they can have more friends and better relationships with family members?
In this podcast, I give you 3 game-changing strategies to improve social skills by enhancing communication and relationships for your loved one with a developmental disability or Autism.
👉 Key Points:
1) Highlight Your Loved One's Value
2) Practice Conversations
3) Use Social Stories
Implementing these strategies not only enhances how others perceive your loved one but also boosts their confidence. More connections mean increased safety in times when you can't be there. Watch the video to learn how to use these 3 strategies to help your loved one improve social skills and have more connection and relationships in their life.
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About Eric Goll: Welcome to Empowering Ability! I'm Eric Goll, and my mission is to help you make sure your loved one with an intellectual/developmental disability lives an Awesome Ordinary Life! As a family member and coach, I support families touched by autism/ developmental disabilities. I provide the knowledge and tools to cultivate an awesome ordinary life for your loved ones, ensuring their care and support now and in the future.
🎁 Download my FREE “7 Strategies for More Independence” guide to boost your loved one's independence: https://www.empoweringability.org/independence-tips/
🎙️ Follow the Empowering Ability Podcast: https://bit.ly/EmpoweringAbilityPodcast
🌐 Visit the Empowering Ability Blog: https://www.empoweringability.org/blog/
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Tuesday Dec 12, 2023
#095: 3 Strategies to Make the Holidays Easier For People with a Disability
Tuesday Dec 12, 2023
Tuesday Dec 12, 2023
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The holidays can be tough when you have a loved one with a disability, but guess what? I've got your back! 🤍
In this podcast, I'm sharing 3 incredible ways to make this festive season a bit brighter for both you and your loved one.
✨ Key Points:
Give: Discover how a thoughtful, effort-filled gift can showcase your loved one's capabilities and spread joy.
Contribute: Learn how to help your loved one find a valued role at gatherings, supporting confidence and connections.
Space: Navigate the holidays with ease by understanding and respecting your loved one's comfort level with other people.
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Let's make this holiday season a little more joyful! I'm Eric Goll, and together, let's take a small step forward toward an awesome, ordinary life. 🌈💖

Friday Nov 24, 2023
Friday Nov 24, 2023
Are you seeking fresh, effective ways to support your loved one with a disability in finding a fulfilling paid job? I've got you covered.
In this new podcast episode, Milton Tyree, an Employment Specialist for people with developmental disabilities, teaches us the best practices of customized employment that you can use to support your loved one with a disability to get a job and keep it. There are people with all sorts of disabilities and disability levels that have paid employment, and paid employment is possible for your loved one, too.
There are all sorts of jobs for people with disabilities.
Also, you don't have to accept substandard disability employment support or disability vocational support any longer. Milton's best practices in this episode will help you support your loved one with a disability to land their next job!
With gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Oct 06, 2023
#093: Who will be there for your loved one with a disability?
Friday Oct 06, 2023
Friday Oct 06, 2023
“Who’s going to love and care for my loved one with a disability when I can’t?”
I get it. It’s a tough question and it’s overwhelming to think about.
But, I’m having this heart-to-heart with you because if you continue to ignore this question the result is a disaster for your loved one and family in the future.
Don’t worry—I’ve got a way forward for you. It’ll take some effort, but believe me, it’s worth it.
Want to know more? Listen to this episode to find out how to really secure your loved one’s future.
with gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Sep 29, 2023
#092: Group homes: The dangerous truth
Friday Sep 29, 2023
Friday Sep 29, 2023
I know you want your loved one with a disability to be safe and well cared for in the future...
And... you might be thinking that a group home and/or day program is the answer.
But... I want to share something with you that I heard from a conversation with a government agency director that might just shake your entire belief system.
In a word: It's dangerous.
Curious? Concerned? You should be.
Listen to this short episode, where I uncover the dangers of group homes and day programs for your loved one and give you a better alternative.
With gratitude,
Eric
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Saturday Sep 23, 2023
#091: Breaking the Caregiving Dependency Cycle
Saturday Sep 23, 2023
Saturday Sep 23, 2023
Ever catch yourself worrying that you’re loved one isn’t capable of independence?
Trust me, you’re not alone. My mom felt the same way about my sister Sarah.
Mom was so worried that Sarah couldn’t even get out of bed on her own. The truth was something else entirely.
… the lengths I had to go to prove it? Let’s just say it’s a story you don’t want to miss!
AND it could very well change how you approach your own caregiving journey.
Let me tell you the story… listen to this episode!
with gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Sep 15, 2023
#090: Julia’s Awesome Ordinary Life
Friday Sep 15, 2023
Friday Sep 15, 2023
I’ve got a story you won’t want to miss—a true tale of transformation that’ll leave you feeling optimistic about the awesome ordinary possibilities for your loved one with a disability.
Meet Julia, a 25-year-old actress with incredible talent but a life script she couldn’t quite figure out.
Then came the game-changer: Karen (Julia’s mom) discovered my Life Plan Coaching Program. The very program I’ll be telling you more about in the coming weeks.
Curious about how Julia and Karen unlocked their potential, addressed safety concerns, and boosted independence? I bet you are. Especially if you’re grappling with the challenge of preparing your loved one for independence.
Don’t take my word for it, though—listen to the podcast to hear directly from Julia and Karen. Trust me, this is the motivation boost you’ve been waiting for!
With gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Sep 08, 2023
Friday Sep 08, 2023
You’re a loving mother committed to your loved one’s growth.
I know it’s challenging, but there’s a way to help your loved one’s independence flourish.
This short podcast reveals two stories, from family members like you, who transformed their loved one’s lives using daily routines, consistency, and even failure.
Growing your loved one’s independence is possible, and I’ve got the next steps for you in this podcast!
With gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Sep 01, 2023
Friday Sep 01, 2023
Is your loved one's progress feeling slow?
I want to share a story with you, one that offers a path to independence that you've been looking for.
In this podcast, you'll learn from Lori's journey, a mother who started breaking down bigger tasks for her daughter into small, manageable steps. Lori's patience and pacing paved the way for her daughter's growing confidence and independence.
This story isn't just about Lori's daughter; it's a process you can use with your loved one.
Listen to learn how you can use small steps to help your loved one make more progress.
With gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Aug 25, 2023
#087: Decision-Making Leads to Your Loved One’s Independence
Friday Aug 25, 2023
Friday Aug 25, 2023
I’d like to tell you a story.
Florence, like many moms, always decided for her teenager with a developmental disability, thinking it was for his safety.
But deep down, she realized this made him more reliant on her. So, she made a change. She started letting her son make his own choices.
The result? He became more involved, confident, and capable. Remember, every choice your loved one makes brings them closer to independence.
Listen to the podcast to learn how you can use decision-making to increase your loved one’s independence.
with gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Aug 18, 2023
#086: The Secret Sauce to Motivating Your Loved One
Friday Aug 18, 2023
Friday Aug 18, 2023
Tired of the constant nagging to try and motivate your loved one with a developmental disability to do more at home?
Imagine a world where your loved one is interested in growing their independence without resistance.
The secret is in identifying the perfect opportunity. Let me guide you through it, drawing inspiration from Karen’s story.
In this podcast, I’m going to help you find that right opportunity to engage your loved one.
with gratitude,
Eric
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Saturday Aug 12, 2023
#085: Transitioning Towards Independence at Home
Saturday Aug 12, 2023
Saturday Aug 12, 2023
Let’s face it, stepping into the realm of independence for your loved one with developmental disabilities can seem daunting.
But guess what? With a few clever tools and strategies, you can create a home environment that encourages independence while minimizing risk.
This episode is a treasure trove of valuable insights, taking you on a guided tour through two key areas of your home – the kitchen and bathroom.
You’ll discover practical ways to reduce potential hazards, enabling your loved one to confidently perform daily tasks.
Remember, each small step towards independence adds up towards a giant leap towards an Awesome Ordinary Life.
With gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Aug 04, 2023
#084: Using Technology to Improve the Safety of your Loved One
Friday Aug 04, 2023
Friday Aug 04, 2023
In this podcast, you'll discover the power of two supportive technologies for individuals with developmental disabilities. I’ll show you the potential of GPS tracking and video monitoring, which can create a safety net for your loved one and promote independence.
I also address privacy and consent when using these technologies, while acknowledging the positive impact these tools can have on your loved one’s life.
You’ll learn about user-friendly options like “Find My iPhone” to more sophisticated devices like AngelSense Tracker. Additionally, I explore real-time support through video doorbells and peephole cameras, offering peace of mind, especially when your loved one is home alone.
As you plan the future for your loved one, embrace technology to increase safety and independence.
With gratitude,
Eric
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Friday Jul 21, 2023
#083 A Lifeline in Your Pocket: Smartphones & Disability
Friday Jul 21, 2023
Friday Jul 21, 2023
I know your fears and struggles, and I’m here to help you discover the power of smartphones in redefining communication, safety, and independence for loved ones with developmental disabilities.
I initially doubted the impact of a smartphone on my sister's life, but it became a gateway to her independence.
In this podcast, I explore how smartphones enhance independence through communication, safety, and organizing life.
Together, we can create a plan for their safety and care in the future.
Download Your Guide: 10 Tech Tools - To Transition Towards Independence

Saturday Jul 08, 2023
#082: 30-Year Path of Inclusion: Darcy Elk’s Story
Saturday Jul 08, 2023
Saturday Jul 08, 2023
Welcome to this new episode of the Empowering Ability podcast. Today, I’m thrilled to introduce our guest, Darcy Elks. Darcy is an educator, consultant, human services evaluator, and advocate for people who are societally devalued. With over 35 years of experience working with marginalized individuals, Darcy has collaborated with various groups, including persons with disabilities. Darcy wears multiple hats, not only as a mother but also as a professional facilitator and coach specializing in social role valorization (SRV). Her wealth of knowledge makes her an invaluable resource for families seeking guidance in their own inclusion journeys.
In this episode, we dive into Darcy’s journey as a parent of three adult children, one of whom has a developmental disability, and her experience navigating the path of inclusion over the last 30 years.
Darcy’s personal journey began with her oldest daughter, Mary. From the moment Darcy held Mary in her arms, she and her husband were overwhelmed with love and hope for their daughter’s future. They dreamed of Mary having a good education, developing friendships, pursuing her interests, and eventually finding a job and perhaps even getting married. However, it was through the inspiring families they met in Alberta, who were already living fully inclusive lives, that Darcy and her husband found the strength and encouragement to embark on their own inclusive path.
Their journey started with finding the right preschool for Mary. Instead of seeking a special preschool, they turned to their neighbors and discovered a welcoming Montessori school. This marked the beginning of Mary’s inclusive education, as she became the first child with a developmental disability to be included in that school. Throughout her schooling years, Darcy and her family faced challenges, such as being told Mary couldn’t attend her neighborhood school because of her Down syndrome. However, they persevered, and Mary not only attended her neighborhood school but also developed strong bonds with her peers.
Darcy shares poignant moments from their journey, such as the encounter with Mrs. Wilson, a fourth-grade teacher who initially expressed resistance to having Mary in her class. Darcy’s resilience and determination to advocate for her daughter continued into highschool and led to Mary’s classmates standing up for her inclusion, reinforcing the importance of having supportive relationships.
Upon graduating from high school, Mary expressed her desire to attend university, even though opportunities for individuals with developmental disabilities were limited at the time. Darcy and her family worked tirelessly to make this dream a reality. Mary enrolled as a non-matriculated student, focusing on theater and health. She received support from a grad student on campus and engaged in valuable learning experiences while educating others through her presence and participation.
Mary’s inclusion extended beyond education to the workforce, as she began working part-time jobs from the age of 15. Today, she works in the theater industry. Mary continues to contribute to her community, embodying the vision of a fully included life.
Throughout the episode, Darcy emphasizes the power of relationships and the role they play in fostering inclusion. She highlights the importance of seeking to understand others’ perspectives and approaching challenging situations with calmness, patience, and firmness.
Join me on this important discussion and let’s take that crucial step forward.
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Friday Jun 30, 2023
Friday Jun 30, 2023
Welcome to this new episode of the Empowering Ability Podcast! Today, it’s my pleasure to bring to you Cesilee Coulson. Cesilee is the Executive Director of the Washington Initiative for Supported Employment, also known as WISE. With 25 years of experience in competitive integrated employment training and technical assistance, Cesilee is an expert in the field. She holds a master’s degree in sports psychology from the University of Oregon, an Executive Coaching certification from the Hudson Institute, and a somatic coaching certification from The Strozzi Institute.
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of supported employment for individuals with developmental disabilities. Cesilee shares her expertise and insights on how to support individuals in gaining and sustaining paid employment. We discuss the importance of cultivating employer relationships, setting clear expectations, and customizing support services to meet individual needs.
Cesilee’s extensive experience in the field, combined with her passion for empowering individuals with disabilities, makes this conversation incredibly informative and inspiring. Whether you’re a family member, a professional, or someone interested in the topic, you’ll find valuable insights and practical advice throughout the episode.
So, without further ado, I invite you to jump right into the conversation with Cesilee Coulson.
The 12-Independence Tips Guide!
If you’re ready to help your loved one grow their independence, I invite you to grab our free guide, “12-Independence Tips: Insights from Parents, for Parents.” Just click the link below to get your hands on it.
https://www.empoweringability.org/independence-tips/

Saturday Jun 24, 2023
#080: Inclusion in the Workplace (Part 2)
Saturday Jun 24, 2023
Saturday Jun 24, 2023
What are the direct impacts on your loved one with a disability in a special vs ordinary workplace?!
In this podcast, I help you understand the impacts by looking at;
-> the work environment,
-> rate of pay,
-> relationships, and
-> growth opportunities.
The differences are drastic, and I hope that this podcast gives you the tools to be able to make better decisions with your loved one.
The 12-Independence Tips Guide!
If you’re ready to help your loved one grow their independence, I invite you to grab our free guide, “12-Independence Tips: Insights from Parents, for Parents.” Just click the link below to get your hands on it.
https://www.empoweringability.org/independence-tips/

Monday Jun 19, 2023
#079: Inclusion in the Workplace (Part 1)
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Have you ever wondered about the difference between a “special” (i.e. only neurodivergent) and an “ordinary” (i.e. mostly neurotypical) workplace?!!
It’s easy to assume that our loved ones with developmental disabilities simply focus on their job and that the environment they work in doesn’t matter. But have we taken a moment to consider the implications of the workplace environment?
We live in a world where people with developmental disabilities are still pushed towards the “special” environments, and when it comes to work the legacy of sheltered workshops is still deeply ingrained.
As parents and caregivers, the choices we make between “special” and “ordinary” options have a profound impact on the lives of our loved ones, the community we live in, and even the world at large.
In this talk, we’ll take a deep dive into the impacts of special vs. ordinary workplaces by looking at the larger world and community perspective. This will set the stage for next week’s video/podcast where we’ll explore the individual impacts on your loved one of these “special” and “ordinary” workplace environments.
In this podcast, you will gain valuable insights that will empower you and your loved one to make informed decisions for their journey towards an Awesome Ordinary Life! Together, we can navigate the complexities and unlock the possibilities of creating a fulfilling and inclusive future.
Join me on this important discussion and let’s take that crucial step forward.
The 12-Independence Tips Guide!
If you’re ready to help your loved one grow their independence, I invite you to grab our free guide, “12-Independence Tips: Insights from Parents, for Parents.” Just click the link below to get your hands on it.

Friday Feb 24, 2023
#078: No one dreams of going to a day program
Friday Feb 24, 2023
Friday Feb 24, 2023
Are you feeling frustrated with the limited options available for your loved one with a developmental disability?
Do you feel like they're just going through the motions at their day program without really growing or experiencing life to the fullest?
If so, I'm here to tell you that there are better options out there.
The truth is, there are better ordinary options available for your loved one. We're here to help you explore and discover the possibilities that exist to help your loved one live an Awesome Ordinary Life, with more independence, real friendships, and even paid employment.
With gratitude,
Eric
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